They’re growing up so fast! How to know when it’s time to transition to a “big kids bed!”
Is that crib looking a bit smaller these days? It’s not your eyes, it’s your child. And they’re growing up so fast.
Ditching the crib or toddler bed is a big deal for you and your little one. This is just another step up in the world and another part of growing up, and growing pains for parents.
But are you ready for the change? It’s kind of a big deal.
It’s just part of the life-changing events in our lives. The “big kid bed” can be as iconic to some as getting your driver’s license, or taking your first steps. So yeah, this is one of those moments when mom grabs the camera, and dad gets frustrated over figuring out what to do with the crib or toddler bed now that your child has outgrown it.
So with these thoughts going through your head, let’s dive into some of the things to consider:
Toddler bed, or big kid bed?
When I was little I wanted a train engine bed. You saw the race car beds, but where was the locomotive? Having sweet dreams of trains and being the conductor behind the iron horse was always on my mind. So first decide this: what kind of bed are you looking for? Artsy? Fun? Something a bit more casual, or traditional? A toddler bed, or a big kid bed that your child will grow into? Consider these questions when looking!
How tall is your child?
It’s not an odd question, but face it: your child is growing up. By the time I was 16 I was already well over 6 feet tall. I moved from a crib into a big kid bed right away, and then, when in high school my parents specially ordered an extra-long bed. Though 16 is a long way off, take your child’s height into consideration when shopping.
Firm mattress, or soft?
Most parents err on the side of wanting a firm, sturdy mattress so junior doesn’t roll out of bed by accident. With that being said, “bed rail bumpers” are also an option to help keep your child securely in bed and not awake at 2 a.m. with a bump on the head!
Is the room child-proof?
This is a funny question to ask: is your child’s room childproof? Just make sure there is a “safety zone” around the bed. Maybe push that nightstand out a few more inches, just in case you don’t want to try the bed rail bumpers right away. Undisturbed sleep is always better than a 2 a.m. crying child with a bump.
Patience is important.
How long did it take you to learn how to tie your shoes? Ride a bike? Sleeping in a new bed takes patience and trial and error. Your little one might wake up and not know where they are because they are used to seeing a certain wall or poster when they wake up. It might be scary to them at first being in a new bed, in a new spot, but it takes time to adjust. Just always make sure to display love and safety to your child. They’re a big kid now.